Need help with grief?

October 10, 2007 – 6:44 pm | posted in Colorectal Cancer, GastroIntestinal

my grandma died about 2 days ago,and i was really really close to her, and like yeah, her and i were really close, we did EVERYTHING together,she raised me since i was a little kid, and was always there for me,when i went to school,she would walk with me there.. she would play games with me when i was a little kid.. but then i did bad things to her too like make her cry at times..the doctors would always lie to my family (we only had 5 ppl in our family) they would say she had H. Pylori when she had Gastric Cancer.. we tried finding cures for her.. but none of them worked.. she stayed in bed a lot but like yeah,in the end the doctors gave her bad blood and that gave her blood clots in her leg.. it spread to her heart sooner or later,i went to her on the day she died, she was the last person i saw, she tried telling me something but i couldnt hear, she started breathing strangely and i asked the nurse what was happening but she didnt do anything after half an hour she died..

I guess the first thing is don’t beat up on your self, we have all done things we’re not proud of. The currency of love is time and it sounds like you spent it wisely, that is with her. You were there when it counted. Cherish her memory and live your life like she would want you to.

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